N is for non-negotiables. There are things that as a divorcee and a single mom that are deal breakers or non-negotiables. I won’t date someone who drinks on a regular basis or ever uses drugs. Abusive behavior is a no go as well. There are some more entertaining requirements such as a playful personality and be able to have deep conversations about nothing and everything.
O is for opinions. I’ve relied on others opinions far too much in the past. I’m working on trusting my thoughts and opinions.
P is for pretty. I typically dislike compliments on my appearance. However, I’m coming around to the idea especially when I get compliments on all aspects of myself including my physical appearance and my intelligence.